Carolyn Hax: He abandoned his family but wants control of the narrative

Dear Carolyn: My husband, “Ty,” woke up one Tuesday and decided that after 12 years of marriage and 16 years of being in a relationship, he just didn’t want to be married anymore. He said he wasn’t in love with anyone else but he wasn’t in love with me. He wanted a break from parenting and moved across the country a few days later.